I’m going to write why I created this event to talk more about sex.
First of all, true human intimacy and connection is the theme of my life and I’ve been exploring and studying it for several years.
Also, I think it’s very important to talk about sex.
It’s one of the reasons that I broke up with my ex. I wasn’t able to express what I wanted out of our sex life to him.
It’s important to talk about sex in daily conversations not only in the bedroom.
When you usually don’t talk about sex at all, then you ask your partner what to do in the bedroom, it would freak him or her out and it’s often more difficult to communicate your sexual preferences in the bedroom.
When you tell each other how you felt about previous sex,
For example, ‘I loved how you penetrated me yesterday, and I also love not moving during intercourse, because I can feel your di*k more in my pussy, can we try not moving for 2 mins or so next time?💛’
If you could discuss your sexual fantasies and preferences openly, every time you make love, it will be so much more fun.
I’ve been thinking that in other parts of our life, we’re not afraid to be specific.
For example, think about when you go to a hairdresser,
you ask a stylist specifically what you want before he or she cuts your hair.
Such as,
You might want your hair bobbed about 3cm length from your jaw and get your hair colored dark brown. Your fringe should be around your eye blow level.
Why we don’t apply same directness to our sex life? Why we’re so shy about asking our partners specifically in sex??
Only sex has this much stigma attached to it.
Let’s talk about what you really want before sex just the same as we do in our daily conversations.
I’ve been affected by the strong taboo surrounding sex and I was concerned if I told my ex everything I want, he would freak out. Even now, It requires so much courage for me to tell a partner about my preferences.
When my ex asked me what I like, what I could say is ‘I like to be slowly aroused.’ and I hesitated to tell him anything specific.
I’ve got so many fantasies that I can literally write erotica, in fact I’m writing it now.
But I felt very vulnerable and scared to death even thinking about telling my ex what I really craved.
HOWEVER,
How could your partner know what you want? He or she will never know unless you tell him or her.
Is he or she a psychic? NOOOOOOO!!!! Of course not!!!
There’s strong taboo about sex in society and I assume it’s not very common to talk thoroughly about sex with your significant other either in and outside of the bedroom.
So if we have a chance to discuss sex with various people in a open and safe environment , we can discover something remarkable and think outside of the box!
Also, I was born and live as a woman,
I appreciate my experience as female,
sometimes, I felt so intensely tough to be a woman.
I’ve wondered what if I was born as different sexuality?
I’m curious to know how it feels to live as a man, lesbian or transgender.
How does it feel to live both man and woman????
It’s beyond my imagination and it’s so fascinating and intriguing to know about diversity of sexuality.
If I get to know more perspectives, I can feel lusciousness of various sexuality and be more honest with myself and live more boldly.
I love to encounter unexpected views and broke the mold surprisingly.
So we would love to have people from different backgrounds❣
-those who having an affair
-those who experiencing a sexless relationship
-virgin
-LGBTQ
-kinks etc..
Everyone is welcome💛💛💛
The Night of Conversation about Sex and Sexuality
Date : Saturday, June 15th at 6pm
Fee : 500yen plus your meals and drinks
Venue ：Private room at Izakaya restaurant near Kyoto Kawaramachi Station
（Will be notified only participants.）
Note: This event is to exchange your views about sex and sexuality openly in a safe and non judgemental environment; Not for doing something dirty or sexual. if you have done something inappropriate such as groping or any type of sexual harassment, you'll be dismissed immediately.
Please secure your position NOW! ↓ ↓ ↓ ↓
https://ws.formzu.net/fgen/S93
Here's the event details ↓ ↓ ↓ ↓
https://mayumi-diary.hatenablog.com/entry/2019/04/22/110220
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